What Glass Ceiling? Celebrating the Unique Challenges and Opportunities of Entrepreneurial Women!

Some of the amazing women at a recent THINK Like a BLACK BELT for the Entrepreneurial Woman event!

Some of the amazing women at a recent THINK Like a BLACK BELT for the Entrepreneurial Woman event!

I was just responding to some comments on a LinkedIn discussion about the continuing disparity between women’s wages compared to men.

The discussion reminded me of one of the most inspirational women I ever met, Captain Julie Clark. She shattered the “glass ceiling” at 35,000 feet becoming the first female captain at a major American airline.

Anyway, as we prepare for our upcoming THINK Like a BLACK BELT for the Entrepreneurial Woman events, I was inspired to jump into the fray and share Julie’s story.

I don’t have time to get permission to use the other comments on the thread, so I’ll paraphrase those comments and add my responses below…

This first comment was in response to posts regarding a recent report on the “Wage Gap” between women and men…

That’s exactly what we’re trying to change with THINK Like a BLACK BELT for the Entrepreneurial Woman

…Our next event is in Freeport, Maine on May 16th.

You’ll network with other women entrepreneurs, discuss ways to deal with your unique challenges and most of all- talk about how to improve and expand opportunities for entrepreneurial women.

Since I’ve started doing this program I’ve done extensive research on the “wage gap,” and largely, it is exactly that…a wage gap.

To be blunt, the most consistent reason for this widely publicized disparity is simply that women who are employed tend to choose jobs that pay less, but fulfill other desires, particularly service in social areas.

The woman entrepreneur is free to set her own financial goals and determine her own rewards. NO LIMITS…and we Celebrate Adversity as an opportunity to become stronger, more focused and more determined to succeed.

That’s our focus in this event!

Hope to see you there!

Linda Ridell, obviously a powerful entrepreneurial woman, added:

“As a female entrepreneur, I am responsible for what I get paid. Women who are employed have somewhat less choice in the matter, though they could refuse to settle for lower wages.

“Overall, women are probably less confident to demand more money. Or, as Jim says, women choose lower paying work anyway.”

I replied…

Both confidence and fear of appearing too “aggressive” to male counterparts and employers are often talked about in our groups.

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Our world famous women’s t-shirt! “Celebrate Adversity…It’s your opportunity to become the person you may never have imagined without it!”

There are ways to overcome both challenges. As I say above, we “Celebrate Adversity.”

Every challenge is an opportunity to grow, develop and expand your potential.

Here’s a great story…Julie Clark was the first woman to earn the rank of Captain on a major American airline. Now she’s one of the country’s leading aerobatic pilot.

Talk about shattering the glass ceiling, she did it at 35,000 feet!

Julie faced enormous challenges in her life including losing both her parents at an early age. Her father was a pilot who was killed in the first terrorist hijacking in American airspace that caused a crash.

In her airline career, she faced one of the most entrenched “Old Boys Club” in any industry…and she kicked it in the tail!

I’m proud to call her a friend and she’s a great inspiration to me!

Here’s an interview I did with Julie when I was hosting an aviation show:

Be sure to listen to her story about arriving at one job where there was NO door on the women’s restroom…and what she did about it!!!

Join us in Freeport, Maine on May 16th to network with other women entrepreneurs, discuss challenges and solutions, enjoy some nice mimosas and of course, learn how to THINK Like a BLACK BELT!

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A Year of Success – 52 Lessons to Improve Your Life

ayos_hp_group_imageToday’s blog is intended to sell you something…

Seriously!

I won’t beat around the bush or try to lure you in with clever copy…

If you want to get ahead in life- if you’re not satisfied with the way things are going right now…get some help!

My life in martial arts has taught me that if I want to achieve anything, the first step is to seek the guidance of a trusted Master.

I got some help recently from a Master who has now become a friend and trusted mentor- Larry Winget.

This past year, Larry worked with a small group of some of the top personal development Masters in the country- Mark Sanborn, Sally Hogshead, and Bob Burg to produce a unique program.

“A Year of Success” is a 52 week program of on-demand video instruction in four major areas you need to improve the financial and emotional quality of your life.

The other day I asked Larry what he thought people should know about this series. He said:

“This series should come with a warning sign: Only participate if you are tired of the typical BS and want real, actionable ideas that will actually make a difference.”

Look- there are plenty of “success” programs out there. I’ve tried plenty of them.

Why should you take a look at this one and why am I recommending it?

Well…it all starts with the story of how Larry Winget became my mentor…

Success Quotient Vertical BannerA few years ago I had a really stupid idea.

I’m a philosophy junky and I openly admit that I’ve always been much more interested in the philosophical aspects of martial arts rather than the physical.

This was obvious to my students- some of whom pointed out to me that they were starting to use some of “that philosophy crap” I was sharing in their personal and business lives.

And it was working!

That was the beginning of my stupid idea. I’d take the mystery out of ancient wisdom of the martial arts masters and teach people how to THINK Like a BLACK BELT.

That’s when I “met” Larry Winget.

I decided that if I were going to jump in to the personal development world, I’d better “know my enemy” so to speak. That is- I wanted to gather some intel about what other personal development speakers and writers do and how they do it.

So- I’m at my local Borders going through the usual pseudo-metaphysical self-help bullshit when I saw a cover with this intense bald guy dressed in black, shades hiding his eyes. He was pointing directly at me…

“Shut Up, Stop Whining & Get a Life” was the title.

What? You talking to me?

Actually- he was.

Part of the reason I wanted to be a speaker and write a book was because I wasn’t getting what I thought I deserved in my life.

I did feel great when people told me I made a difference in their lives through martial arts, but I was approaching mid-life. I’d been working hard for years and had nothing in my bank account to show for it.

I wanted to make money. I wanted to travel. I wanted to make sure I wouldn’t end up as a ward of the state when my punching and kicking days were over…and I knew for the first time that wasn’t too far away.

So here is this guy telling me I’m lazy…I’m really not doing what I need to do and…yes- I was whining about it. That was, to say the least, a different approach to personal development!

I knew I had to meet this guy in person!

First, I invited Larry to be a guest on my podcast. That initial meeting grew into a series of phone calls and a sincere dialog through social media.

Every time I’d put Larry’s advice to work- it produced a significant change in my life and in my business…

  • I stopped listening to people who were selling dreams
  • I stopped looking for secrets
  • I stopped worrying about feeling good about myself
  • I stopped hanging around with people who were holding me back

Instead…

  • I started creating clear, actionable plans
  • I started looking more at what I could do instead of worrying about what I couldn’t
  • I started associating with people who are where I wanted to be
  • I started getting coaching and mentoring from people at the top…

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We finally met in person about two years ago when Larry and Joe Calloway invited me to their speakers bootcamp in Arizona. Thanks to both these men, my life and business have never been the same.

Larry has become a friend and trusted mentor…because his advice works!

With “A Year of Success,” you can “meet” Larry and his partners Mark Sanborn, Sally Hogshead, and Bob Burg and benefit from their instruction and advice for an entire year.

Larry’s philosophy:

“Success is simple. Not easy. But not all that hard either. It’s about about work.”

Sound a lot like Black Belt Mindset?

Getting to Black Belt is not magic. It’s the product of learning, training and practice.

Creating a life of success and happiness is not magic either. It’s not about dreaming- it’s about doing. It’s about hard work, focus and discipline…and it takes time.

Simple…not easy!

Get started…

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Self-Esteem: What’s Love Got to Do With It?

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There’s nothing better for your self-esteem than true, unconditional love…

…on the other hand, a lousy relationship can crush you!

This week we celebrate Valentine’s Day. We’re also celebrating the official release of LOVE Like a BLACK BELT: Cracking The Code to Being a Happy Couple, my collaboration with world renowned relationship expert Dr. Jackie Black.

A relationship can be a healthy contributor to your self-esteem and self-confidence, provided you’re not dependent on your partner as the sole source of your self-esteem and confidence!

One of the secrets- if there are any- of building a happy relationship is to find a partner who is strong and self-confident. Aren’t confident, self-assured and independent people more attractive?

In the book I wrote:

I’ve been the self-loathing slug who lacked a sense of self-value, awareness and authentic purpose. In that mindset I felt lost, deprived and dependent upon others to determine the course of my life. When I had that mindset, I attracted needy women, emotionally and otherwise, and friends with the same mindset.

Once I started to see that my life could have value for others and I embraced the continual process of self-perfection, I started to attract people who were movers, self-aware, confident and ambitious.

Once I established some sense of self-awareness and value, I became more confident myself.

At that point in my life, I decided I would rather be alone than constantly compromise and accept someone else’s vision of what I was or what I should be. At that moment, I developed an authentic friendship that had the substance to evolve into a life partnership. That’s when I knew I had found the woman I would marry!

So, if you want to get to know the person you should spend the rest of your life with, get to know yourself!

I learned a lot about relationships from Dr. Jackie as we worked on this project. One of her most powerful and interesting ideas is that the relationship itself is really a third entity.

For either partner to have confidence in the relationship, each much have self-confidence and confidence in one another.

As each partner is grows stronger and more confident as individuals, each brings more value to the relationship itself. Confident individuals build confident relationships.

If you want a relationship that will help you feel good about yourself, build a relationship that you can feel good about!

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Love- Like a Black Belt? Here’s how…

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JAN 18th on THINK Like a BLACK BELT Conversations: Dr. Jackie Black, co-author of LOVE Like a BLACK BELT, joins us to talk about the challenges of “Couples and Money!” Join us live at Spreecast at 2 PM ET…

What happens when a Black Belt meets one of the world’s leading authorities on relationships?

Well- when I met Dr. Jackie Black, it meant a new book!

What’s love got to do with it?

That’s a good question! I cannot honestly say that when I started this whole THINK Like a BLACK BELT adventure that I’d be working on a book about love.

I’m a fighter- not a lover!

As I got to know Dr. Jackie and her work, it was obvious that the same principles she teaches through her books, “Meeting Your Match” and “Couples and Money” were the same principles I teach in THINK Like a BLACK BELT.

A book was born...

Think about it. What are the ingredients in a successful relationship?

  • Respect
  • Compassion
  • Discipline
  • Focus
  • Perseverance

And a commitment to the continual development and improvement of each partner and the relationship itself- which is a third partner.

While working on LOVE Like a BLACK BELT I learned from Dr. Jackie that the relationship itself is an entity. It has it’s own needs, characteristics and personality that is the the product of the attention each partner brings to it.

Love is a battlefield!

That doesn’t mean you should be constantly fighting- it means that the relationship, like a battle, only exists when you have two individuals who are striving to fulfill their own interests, needs and desires.

The difference is that while in battle you seek to resolve your differences through force, in a relationship you evolve a continuing process of satisfying your own needs while contributing the happiness and satisfaction of your partner as well.

Of course even Sun Tzu in the Art of War said:

“Mix the captured chariots with our own, treat the captured soldiers well.”

Your relationship with a special partner should be one of the most satisfying and enjoyable experiences in life. Together, you can expand your individual potential far beyond what is possible for any one of us acting alone.

You can “Crack the Code to Being a Happy Couple” when you LOVE Like a BLACK BELT!

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Business is always a challenge- Fiscal Cliff or no! The number one thing you can ALWAYS do to improve your business is to TRAIN!

Check out the Southern Maine Community College “Launch or Grow Small Business Success Conference” on January 25th.

Jim will be presenting “The Tale of Two Brands,” how to successfully market your business and avoid the pitfalls of bad branding!

Jim will also be part of the special “Shark Tank” session…Click the banner for details and registration!

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SPECIAL POST: Two new episodes of THINK Like a BLACK BELT Conversations – The Doctors!

Have you checked out our new show on Spreecast?

THINK Like a BLACK BELT Conversations features personal dialogs with America’s leading experts in business, personal development, relationships and current events!

Join us live on Friday, January 18th for two powerful episodes:

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Business is always a challenge- Fiscal Cliff or no! The number one thing you can ALWAYS do to improve your business is to TRAIN!

Check out the Southern Maine Community College “Launch or Grow Small Business Success Conference” on January 25th.

Jim will be presenting “The Tale of Two Brands,” how to successfully market your business and avoid the pitfalls of bad branding!

Jim will also be part of the special “Shark Tank” session…Click the banner for details and registration!

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 THINK Like a BLACK BELT just $1.99 on Amazon Kindle!!!

Click here!

(Amazon Prime members can always borrow THINK Like a BLACK BELT and thousands of other titles for their Kindle…FREE!)

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